A Woman Too Ambitious For Church Confesses

A Woman Too Ambitious For Church Confesses

When I was let go from the youth ministry job I had loved so dearly, one of the Board said to me, ‘Well, it’s probably for the best, your business seems to be going well so you should probably just focus on that.’ It’s taken me seven long years to realise that he was...
It’s Not Me, It’s You.

It’s Not Me, It’s You.

To my long-time love; It has been a long time since I seriously considered calling it quits on our relationship. Even though I no longer depend on you, the Church, to tell me how to live, or to provide connection with other people of faith—I’ve stuck to the...
Real Intimacy, Behind The Wall.

Real Intimacy, Behind The Wall.

Real Sex & Emotional Intimacy – These Stories Are Not My Secrets. I’m able to put words to it now, I think – what I’ve been learning is that the healthy and whole sexual expression I crave is both physical and emotional. It should be clear by now. Therefore,...
A Modern Virgin.

A Modern Virgin.

Disclaimer: This is a series. This first post is long, but stick with it, please. This is the setup, the rest will be shorter. I’m going to be sharing with you what it’s been like to be a modern virgin, what I’ve learned over years from all sorts of...