It’s Not Me, It’s You.

It’s Not Me, It’s You.

To my long-time love; It has been a long time since I seriously considered calling it quits on our relationship. Even though I no longer depend on you, the Church, to tell me how to live, or to provide connection with other people of faith—I’ve stuck to the...
Coming Out Spiritual.

Coming Out Spiritual.

I recently celebrated my birthday with a backyard bash for friends and family. And because I think it’s always important to add moments of emotion and poignancy to an event – I asked a few dear friends to share a few words. They captured almost every facet...
Solving The Little Problems.

Solving The Little Problems.

In my line of work, we call them the ‘pain points’. They are the often unspoken, yet overwhelming reasons why people don’t do something. Whether it’s a simple online transaction, completing a survey, finishing an assignment or responding to email – everything from...
I Think I Want To Be Unchristian.

I Think I Want To Be Unchristian.

These are delicate words. Probably easy to be misconstrued. I expect they might be. Part of me wishes they will be. I think I’d like to be unChristian. It’s such a messy word. The word itself is sharp like a knife but unlike a sharp knife, it tears and...